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Repost from @jayshetty
There is a credibility and reliability that comes with getting support and knowledge from an abuse survivor because you know, that they know, exactly what you're going through.
I've been there. I've got the name calling, the silent treatments, the abandonment, the affection withholding, the smear campaign, the belittling, the contempt, the demeaning, the projection, and the gaslighting.
When I tell you I know what you're going through, believe me, I know exactly what you are going through.
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Ugh, I feel this.
I never felt so demeaned as I did when I was begging someone I loved just to talk to me, just to tell me what was wrong, just to be human to me.
The narcissist loves to watch you beg. I had never begged for anything in my entire life until I met my demon ex. That man had me begging, crying, pleading for the simplest of conversations, humane treatment, and plain respect.
I always felt disgusted with myself and still struggle with forgiving myself for sinking so low.
I will keep working on my self forgiveness but one thing I know for sure, is that I will never beg another human being for any little thing for the rest of my days.
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Two words that gave me freedom.
Two words that killed the demon.
Two words that are my religion.
Two words that changed my life.
Those two words are:
NO CONTACT
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Many survivors are gradually conditioned to live in constant anxiety. They exist in a maze & the abuser constantly moves the cheese. There are no rules or safe routes because the abuse seems unpredictable & random. Targets think the abuser is moody, he has low blood sugar, he has anger issues, he doesn't sleep well, he's hungry, he's stressed, he doesn't know any better, he can't help it, he loves me deep down, he just needs a safe place to let out steam, or he doesn't mean it. In truth, he can help it, and he is in control of when, where, and how he abuses you. In time, you start to be hyperaware of the most subtle signs that you have "messed up" because you know you will "pay for it" later. The abuser uses mean looks, glares, silence, or other nonverbal cues to keep you in your place. You slowly jump through more and more hoops and the box becomes smaller and smaller until you feel completely afraid to do or say anything. Your spirit is dying. .
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#Repost @narcaway who writes:
Chances are your abuser is on their best behaviour when you are with extended family, friends, or work associates. With time you'll see they stop trying to hide the abuse as much from certain people.
In my case he really had no problem showing his temper and silent treatments to my family/friends after we had been together a few years.
If we were around strangers or work folk, his abuse was much more subtle, as to not be picked up by someone not looking for it, but it was surely there with either looks, sly comments, or ignoring and dismissing.
No matter where we were or what the situation, if I needed to be "put in line" he had his moves perfected and tailored to every situation.
100% controlled and meticulously executed for maximum damage to my esteem, my confidence and my mood.
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Omg sooooo true. Co-parenting with these kinds of people is the absolute worst. #Repost @narcaway
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How many of these points can you relate to?
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@Regran_ed from @narcaway - It takes a lot of mindfulness, practice, and strength to get here, but when you do - you are free!
When the narc no longer keeps you up at night, when you stop internalizing their projections, when you stop blaming yourself; you are on your way to being healed.
Going no contact and taking the steps to educate yourself on the inner workings of emotional abuse are the first steps necessary in healing.
Be strong, stay no contact, find support from other survivors (even friends and family who have your back just won't 'get it' if they've not been through it too). Remember the old saying we used as kids "I'm rubber and you're glue, whatever you say bounces off me and sticks to you". #narcissist #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissisticabuse #narcissism #nocontact #redflag #abusivebehaviour #narc #verbalabuse #namecalling #sociopath #emotionalvampire #soulrape #manchild #psychopathfree #hiddenabuse #domesticviolence #healing #karma #psychopath #psycho #empath #emotionalabuse #mentalabuse #tempertantrum #traumabonding #gaslighting #greyrock #projection #insecure
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These great manipulators enjoy the game and take pleasure in watching others squirm.
There is a sadistic quality to manipulators who enjoy what most others would deem as "cringeworthy". Take the actions of someone who revels in the puppeteering of others as a MAJOR red flag. It's only a matter of time before they play their twisted game with YOU!
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