List of the most popular hashtags for theme #ATTACHMENT

Reminder for Aries season and last few days of Mars in Taurus (also, want to name I am not into the casual ageism of the quote and that I don’t think it is referring to just romantic relationships and loneliness) #selflove #conflict #mars #venus #attachment @imaneurope seen on @tribedemama

Tell me, what are the clearest signs of spiritual growth to you? At what point do you know for sure that something is changing within you? #lonerwolf #lunaandsol #selftransformation #spiritualawakening #awakening #darknightofthesoul #spirituality #awaken #synchronicity #spiritualgrowth #selfaware #awakespiritual #awakenedsoul #spiritualawareness #letgo #lettinggo #materialism #attachment #desire

If you’re an empath or highly sensitive person, you’ve probably developed a destructive habit over the years of trying to educate toxic people on how to be more empathic or considerate. As you work on building healthy boundaries, however, you slowly realize it is not your job or responsibility to fix anyone or teach them basic human decency. You are not their parent or therapist - and you’ve been quite generous no doubt with people who didn’t deserve your efforts to help. Spend that time considering whether this person is worthy enough to be in your life and detaching rather than feeding into the attachment and trauma bond by giving into the compulsion to try to “change” them. They are adults and they can change themselves on their own. — Shahida Arabi • selfcarehaven.org ♥️‍♀️ —————————————————- #empath #highlysensitiveperson #hsp #narcissisticabuse #emotionalabuse #abuse #domesticviolence #empathy #toxicpeople #verbalabuse #disrespect #datingredflags #tinder #hinge #okcupid #modernromance #datingtips #traumarepetition #shahidaarabi #cycleofabuse #traumabonding #traumabonded #traumabond #traumabonds #attachment #toxicrelationships #toxicrelationship #relationshiprules #boundaries #boundariesarehealthy

Harsh reality, out of the mouth of one babe to another -- the dilemma of the 15 to 24 month-old (& maybe the rest of us?) -- reported by Evan Lian @evahnsan in his cartoon for #thenewyorkermagazine (& seen here before, too). #evanlian ... ... #separationanxiety #objectpermanence #objectconstancy #attachmentparenting #attachment #attachmenttheory #harsh #earlychildhooddevelopment #therapycartoons #reactiveattachmentdisorder #therapyhumor #therapisthumor #harshreality #wheredidtheygo #developmentalpsychology #parentingcartoons #tnycartoon #tnycartoons #newyorkercartoons #thenewyorkercartoons #newyorkercartoon #thenewyorkercartoon #tnycartoonist #newyorkercartoonist #thenewyorkercartoonist #daycare #daycareteacher

I’m definitely feeling this, this week! ⠀ ⠀ The contrast between those who are clinging onto their 3D reality versus those who are ascending into a 5D way of being has been made abundantly clear to me this week.⠀ ⠀ To be fair, I spent most of my life in the former camp completely oblivious to the wonders that exist beyond a 3D reality too. ⠀ ⠀ When we begin to shift, up level and ascend it challenges others - especially those closest to us. Often they feel frightened that they’ll lose you so they’ll try to sabotage your progress overtly or covertly. People who are deeply entrenched within a lower vibrational reality will also be triggered and threatened by your growth, discoveries and expansion. ⠀ They will often reject your new discoveries because it challenges the very foundations that their reality is built upon. If they were to open their minds to the possibility of something more, something different to what they’ve always known, then they may have to consider that their life has been and still is, an illusion. ⠀ ⠀ When you encounter people trying to knock you down and make you doubt yourself or stop you from evolving, just know that your growth and your light is triggering them. It’s shining a very bright light upon their own fears and limitations and because they’re externally focussed, they project their discomfort onto you. ⠀ You know what the truth is and you don’t need anyone else’s permission, blessing or validation to walk your path. Keep your head held high and looking forward beautiful Soul and I’ll see you at the top!⠀ ⠀ Sending love, Jen ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ #attachment #ancestraltrauma #growth #ascension #starseed #connection #relationships #5D #healingtrauma #newearth #awakening #spiritualwisdom #spirituality #healing #newearth #healer #soul #love #trauma #innerchild #growth #empowerment #influencer #meditation #yoga #mindlfulness #jenpeters"

Having to be good, avoid conflict, or stay invisible in order to BE in a relationship can leave you feeling distrustful, anxious, and guarded with others. Breathe. There are people out there who won’t ask you to BE a certain way in order to love you. #attachment #mentalhealthwarrior #connection

Babies are amazing! Look how smart they are only minutes after birth! #MidwifeBrittany #NormalizeBreastfeeding #Repost @aboutbirthonline with @get_repost ・・・ To round off World Breastfeeding Week - this little beauty demonstrates the breast crawl. . Letting instinct kick in to find its mother's breast and have its first feed. . I sometimes think that we forget that we are actually mammals and are hard-wired to know what to do. . #aboutbirthonline #aboutbirth #breatsfeeding #breatscrawl #worldbreastfeedingweek #attachment #birth #newborn #instinct #mammals #colostrum #birtheducation #aboutbirth

A lot of suffering in our relationships comes from the unhealed inner child. . To deal with our suffering as children, we often find ways to distance from it. We do this by learning to have busy minds and bodies, being “numb” to it all, or feeding into addictive behaviors that distract like watching too much tv, using drugs, or alcohol. . As adults, the wounds of our inner child still exist, we’ve just found creative ways to shut them up. Or so we think. . Beginning to heal yourself is to recognize the traumas of childhood and what that experience might have been like for your smaller self. Were you neglected? Abused? Made fun of? Rejected? Afraid? Abandoned? Ignored? Made to be an adult at too young of an age? Did you lose someone important to you? Were you sick? Did you feel insecure and worried about your family? Was their chaos your chaos? Were people yelling around you? Or perhaps, people didn’t even have the energy to yell. Maybe you grew up in a quiet and lonely depressed home. . Has your inner child been wounded because your race, sexuality, body type, or religion were not accepted by the people around you? . To heal, you need to recognize how you were wounded. Just like every wounded child deserves. . Then you need to embrace the feelings that come with this. Perhaps it makes you sad, angry, or confused. . Finally, you soothe your inner child. You do this by allowing yourself to focus on and sit with the emotion. You breathe through it. You gently allow the expression of the emotion. . Imagine yourself as a good parent, picking up a child that has fallen and is crying. A good parent does not tell the child to shut up. A good parent doesn’t run away from their suffering. . A good parent says “come here, I see you are hurting. I am sorry you are hurting. I will just sit here and hold you and rock you until you are okay again.” . Do this for yourself.