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I remind myself how amazing I am everyday. It's not being cocky it's called SELF LOVE.
And trust me it took me years to figure out what that word truly means.
Happy New Year to all the amazing people I get to connect through social media. ♥️
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Importance of Being Single ✍ Let me start this post off by saying that this is in no way me telling you that you should or should not be single. Everyone has a different journey and I can only share the things that I've learned along the way. On that note...
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I am celebrating one of the best anniversaries of my life. I have officially been dating myself and single for 3 years. I know some of you might be like..."girl that's nothing"! But for someone like me who was a serial dater ending up in long term relationships with people who weren't right for me...(but what did I know about love? NOTHING)...THIS is a big deal.
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The choice to walk away from my last relationship set me off on one of the most tearful, depressing, invigorating and awe inspiring years of my life. Not necessarily because of the break up...that was a pretty logical decision. Instead it was a roller coaster of learning about all the good and bad parts of ME. Facing the things I avoided or was in denial about. Why I made the choices I made and why I "loved" whom I "loved". When you're alone and the only person staring back at you is YOU, there's a lot to see and very little to avoid. #message *
I spent the last few years battling with the demons within me, the self-doubt, the darkness, the overwhelming fear of. Fear...and being a broke artist definitely didn't help to ease the anxiety. Can y'all say it with me? A-N-X-I-E-T-Y! I had never felt it this bad. Ohhh y'all know what I'm talking about...the debilitating kind...the I can't even move my finger type of debilitating where you stare at the wall all day. Well I suppose when you've given up a life of security for a mili-chance at your dreams which provides no security and is purely self-faith based, you could be hesitant to take that LEAP. *
But then the clouds started to part...when I forced myself to stay home away from the world and social media, I saw everything. After some major cry sleeping, lonely nights and wonderful moments of awakenings, I knew that the most important person I needed to SHOW UP for was me. And you know what?! I FUCKING LOVE ME!
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