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Putting photos like this for the world to see never gets easier My girlfriend katefert started a movement called the #moretome movement. And here’s mine.
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There’s more to me than meets the eye. People constantly tell me how lucky I am not to have loose skin and stretch marks. Well guess what, I do. It’s not nearly as severe as many peoples but it’s still there. And it still haunts me. While losing the weight was one of the biggest things I’ve ever had to overcome in my life I’m still left with a daily reminder of what once was. My lower body especially my lower stomach and legs are the most effected. I still don’t ever feel comfortable in a bathing suit or naked.
But aside from my loose skin, there’s more to me than meets the eye. I’m smart as hell, pride myself on high integrity and I’ve overcome some pretty extreme hurdles in my life to be where I am today. It’s taken years but I truly love myself, regardless if there are parts of myself Id still like to change or improve. .
There’s more to me than how I look, just like there’s more to you too. There’s more to all of us than what we put on fucking Instagram
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CUTTING PEOPLE OUT VS. DISTANCING
I talk a lot about cutting out toxic dynamics in your life but what I focus less on, is distancing from people. The reason why I don’t talk about it as much is because often times, “distancing” is the consolation prize that a lot of people settle for when they are too scared of the confrontation of cutting someone out.
For me, it’s two different criteria though. If you would describe a relationship as toxic, then the person needs to be cut out. If the dynamic is simply unhealthy, then just take some space. The health of a relationship can fluctuate but a toxic dynamic is due to engrained patterns that will only change when THEY want to change - not when you want them to!
I’ve been in a phase of my life where I’ve had some incredible friendships return into my life in the most undramatic beautiful way. With all of these situations, there was no conversation about it but slowly 1-to-1 weekly dinners turned into seeing each other every 6 months at someone else’s birthday. No drama, no fuss. We were always friends, but just needed more distance to keep the friendship healthy.
You don’t always go back to being as close as you once were but when you want to, I’ve found all it takes is a simple “I miss you. Dinner soon?” and you are back where you left off.
Also note, that you can also cut people out from a negative place where you are doing it out of fear so you never have to learn the art of having hard conversations AND forgiveness.
Do you tend to lean towards cutting someone out or distancing? Do you find one easier?
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BLOATING - aka me and also me It happens. It happens A LOT, especially when we travel (hello salty food and water retention), are approaching our periods, or are stressed. One study showed that 16 - 30% of folks experience regular bloating. ❤️ I definitely do. And sometimes, if I’m really honest, that’s hard. It makes me feel fragile and puffy and awkward. But lately I’ve been following a few women here on social who struggle with it too - and that’s helping. ❤️ So here’s to a bit of honesty and a bit of bloat and a big reminder that you’re gorgeous. Let’s rock this, bellies and all. . Here @cantaloupehotels @villa.sielen.diva .
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CONFESSION: this shot was chosen by a photog that I shoot with A LOT. He knows my angles, he knows my moods & in general he just gets me. When he told me this was his fav shot, for the first time I didn’t agree. He asked me why, I said “MY TITS LOOK SAGGY!” & immediately hated my body for it. He saw the beauty in this & all I could see were flaws. When I look at this now, all I see is a FIERCE ASS B*TCH! Thank you @tianxiaozhang for always seeing the beauty in me; even when I can’t see it myself... I hate to admit it but YOU WERE RIGHT. This shot is also, NATURAL DDD will sag, its part of life. Love yourself regardless ♀️