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Let me tell you something about “forgiveness “ and learning to support yourself You are not bad person if you won’t or can’t forgive people who’ve abused you. I’m guessing you know three things about forgiveness: It’s something you *should* do, you can’t do it, therefore you’re inadequate. That’s not good!! Our culture emphasises forgiveness as the “ right spiritual thing to do.” There are actions from abusive people that neither deserve nor need forgiveness. AND, prematurely or fake-forgiving your past abuser can blind you to the abuse in your life now— it can set you up to numb yourself to real abuse now. Forgive yourself for your natural and RIGHT ANGER. Work toward living a free and fun life because you deserve that. Ok no, don’t “ forgive “ them until you are ultra-ready, and how that you might never be ready and that is RIGHT many times. “ They were just doing their best” is not an excuse for mean awful people to abuse you without push-back.
Hello, someone was telling me that my posts are repetitive and all I could think was I hope they are , because hate is repetitive. Hating of other people, and the hate that’s in the world keeps happening again, and again , and again,but the hate that’s inside you, in your brain, keeps happening again, and again , right? Constant voices in your head. “ That’s was stupid. “
“ Oh I shouldn’t have done that. “ “ Oh they all hate me. “
Whatever it is? It’s pretty constant, so we need a stream of nice, loving posts to help you feel better. I want you to know, you deserve respect. I want you to know, You deserve kindness, and I LOVE YOU ..
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The problem with “ you are here for a reason,” is that it implies you need a reason for being here. You don’t. Just living a kind life and being you is enough. In fact, that’s a person highest purpose. Being you is actually your real reason for getting out of bed everyday. Express. Keep going. Let others know that it’s possible to live without shame. That’s enough. That’s big.