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Honest relationships require us to speak our truth, even when it’s uncomfortable. This doesn’t mean that the truth is received well or even acknowledged by another person. It means, that there is no division between what’s happening inside and what’s communicated outside. This is integrity to ourselves. ❤️
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Repost from @the_enlighten_core
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Maybe you’ve given someone too many chances to act right, grow up, treat you better.
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Know your worth. Know your values. Know your standards. Then stick to them.
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#higherstandards
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#peoplepleaser
#traumarecovery
#traumahealing
#dysfunctional
#nocontact
#empaths
#lifeafterdivorce
#happilysingle
#independentwomen
#bossmindset
#positivevibes
#newoutlook
One of my oldest friends and I got together for some afternoon margaritas (thank you dream career) and we were talking about #WORTH.
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And I was telling her how I thought that, in my latest relationship, the entire duration of the relationship my partner had been “building” my worth, where instead, I realized he just RECONFIRMED it instead.
He didn’t “build” it because there’s nothing to build...you’re born worthy and hopefully one day you’ll realize that fully. But he certainly did remind me daily in how he treated me (like a queen.)
But the point is this: date/spend your time with humans who VALUE you, because at least they’ll always treat you as the worthy soul you are.
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People either value you or not. And it isn’t based on who you are. It’s based on their perceptions built by themselves throughout their life experiences. So do yourself a favor and set a standard for HOW people should treat you and follow through, no matter the difficulty; remember your worth.
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After all, what you tolerate is what you allow. Do you want a guy who will treat you like you’re the woman of his dreams? Don’t tolerate guys that treat you less. Don’t believe you can get that? WHY? Work through your fears/lack of worth/etc., LET your experiences teach you what you want and hold a new standard. This is for anything. Be real picky about who you let into your world- because they’ll effect it too. Always remind yourself that you’re worthy AF and do not tolerate any less than your highest/best self would.
You are literally the f*cking best, don’t settle for anyone that makes you feel less.
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Tag a soul who NEEDS to remember their worth ❤️
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When someone keeps treating you poorly there will be a limit to what you accept. Eventually. And just like that limit there will be consequences for the person who wasn’t treating you right.
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But as you heal don’t stress about what’s happening in their yard. Focus on yours. Get tunnel vision. Work everyday on bettering yourself and your life. And you WILL see a difference.
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#higherstandards
#knowyourvalue
#knowyourworth
#setboundaries
#healthyboundaries
#introvertproblems
#infjpersonality
#infjproblems
#peoplepleaser
#traumarecovery
#traumahealing
#dysfunctional
#nocontact
#empaths
#lifeafterdivorce
#happilysingle
#independentwomen
#bossmindset
#positivevibes
#newoutlook
#lifeafterabuse
#lifelessonslearned
#risingup
#freetobeme
#lifestyleofawarrior
#divorcecoach
#lovedoesnthurt
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Words from my incredible sister @therhondaross. I love YOU so much.
“#KnowYourValue Beauty is not in the eye of the beholder. Beauty is in the knowing of the beheld! It’s time to reclaim the narrative and put OURSELVES at the center of it. It’s time to archive our own images. Celebrate our own beauty. Honor it with a gilded frame. I love this so much. Thank you #lorraineogrady for ”Art Is” and #TraceeEllisRoss #metgala”
Happy Saturday, smile! #laugh #love #life #art #DoWhatYouLove #artinthehamptons #cheapskates #DoYou #smile #figurativeart #Sculpture #artwork #figurativepainting #artoftheday #monalisaonthecheap #monalisa #ShineOn #KnowYourValue #funny #gallerylife #artgallery #hamptons #internationalart #KeepShining
Codependent thinking versus boundary led thinking. Codependency is excessive emotional or psychological reliance on a partner, typically one who requires support on account of an illness or addiction. Specifically, it’s the excessive reliance on and need of approval from others and a sense of identity.
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Codependent thinkers take on blame for any faults that occur within a relationship dynamic and believe they must resolve it, usually at the expense of their own needs not being met and a diminishing of their self perception, worth, and value. Somewhere along the way, they received the message that this is how to show love or make and maintain connections. People who don’t respect you and your boundaries will reinforce this false belief because it meets their needs.
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Truthfully, though, this is having low boundaries. The good news is you can create new and stronger ones! Being able to assert yourself in your communication, behaviors, actions, etc., is how you strengthen your boundaries and in turn, teach others to respect them through modeling. This can be hard, and people will pushback - they want you to depend on them! They want you to feel like your worth is based on what you can do for them, not yourself.
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You can do this and still show people you care! Being big hearted and empathetic doesn’t mean you have to place yourself last and it doesn’t mean you can’t have meaningful, fulfilling relationships. Anything one sided is draining to you and people who love us won’t (intentionally) do that to us! I say that with the caveat that sometimes, people only do to us what we allow, so we have to take our power back!
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#mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #therapy #blacktherapist #codependentnomore #boundaries #healthyboundaries #relationships #healthyrelationships #interpersonal #healing #empower #wellness #settinglimits #emotionalbalance #empathy #community #lgbt #bipoc #qpoc #knowyourworth #knowyourvalue #loveyourself
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Maybe you’ve given someone too many chances to act right, grow up, treat you better.
.
Know your worth. Know your values. Know your standards. Then stick to them.
.
.
.
#higherstandards
#knowyourvalue
#knowyourworth
#setboundaries
#healthyboundaries
#introvertproblems
#infjpersonality
#infjproblems
#peoplepleaser
#traumarecovery
#traumahealing
#dysfunctional
#nocontact
#empaths
#lifeafterdivorce
#happilysingle
#independentwomen
#bossmindset
#positivevibes
#newoutlook