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How do you get your kids to listen without yelling, bribing or punishing?
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I get this question all the time or some variation of this question. The long answer is... Well it's long.
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The short answer is I teach parents what amounts to the #goldilocks of #parenting .
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It's not too soft
It's not too hard
It's juuuuust right!
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How old are your kids and what's your most frustrating behavior problem? .
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link to FREE CLASS giving you the answer up in my bio
Anak mengompol?
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Wajar gak sih? Dulu udah lulus toilet training lalu di usia lebih besar kembali ngompol kembali? Atau malah sampai usia diatas 2 tahun masih terus menerus ngompol?
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Apa aja kemungkinan penyebab anak ngompol? Kapan orangtua harus membawa anak untuk berkonsultasi karena kebiasaannya mengompol?
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Yuk simak informasi dari dr. Apin
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First time doing professional photos with Lil C....couldn’t help doing these cute beach baby butt photos!
Posted #repost • @annakimphotography Double tap if you agree: there’s nothing better than baby butts at the beach
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Termometer tau kan? Itu lhoo benda yang paling sering diunggah ibu ke sosmed kalau anaknya demam! Betul sekali, modelnya makin hari makin masa kini tapi fungsinya sama yaitu mengukur suhu tubuh anak. Pilih yang sesuai kebutuhan yaa ..
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Hmm tapi termometer tembak kening itu lucu ya, kaya tembak tembakan beneran hohoho..cari ah di totopediya...kali aja ada yang flashsale!
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There’s a real societal drive to get kids to perform in school. The thought is that somehow this is the key to a happy life, and secure future. Our children spend thousands of hours learning math, history and science. But what about self regulation, emotional resiliency and compassion? I guess that’s expected to come from home or maybe not? Maybe there is no expectation with regard to EI? I’m not sure we value on a whole the teaching and learning of Emotional Intelligence, and yet we will go to great lengths to insure the learning of content in order to succeed professionally in this world. We can have advanced degrees and jobs which pay well, but without meaningful human connections and the ability to live in our feelings, pass through difficulties with ease and communicate our emotions with others what do we really have? Will we be internally fulfilled with a job? Or will we struggle with anxiety, sleep issues, addiction and broken relationships? In the end our schooling really just lands us a job. That’s it...just a job. It’s good and all and likely necessary, but I want more. More for my kids, more for myself. I want them to have it all. To be able to walk in this world with confidence, resiliency and love for themselves and others. I want them to know what feelings look and feel like and how to process them, to move through upsets and conquer fears. I want them to be kicked down and get up because they know what it’s like to really feel. All the while expressing their emotions and not just putting their head down and plowing through. I believe positive parenting is the cornerstone to emotional intelligence and with that proficiency the rest will come. Sure we have to learn things and go to school and find our passions but let us not loose sight of the real quest in this life. The quest for happiness and internal calm. The quest to experience great friends and relationships, and to pass on our great self regulation to our grandkids. The quest to be more and do better.
Emotions. They get in the way for kids and adults. It won’t matter if your child goes to the best college or lands the perfect job, if they can’t regulate their emotions they won’t be able to function in this world well. Our kids want to do the right thing and are born with the innate desire to please us as a way to protect the connection they share with the one person who will ensure they are fed, clothed and loved. The last thing they WANT to do is jeopardize that relationship. But life happens, upsets occur and things become rocky. When they do, they are unable to think well and act irrationally because their prefrontal cortex (the reasoning center) is no longer engaged. They are disconnected. So what can we do? Try to become connected through play, Special Time and off loading feelings with empathy. Resisting fixing emotional complications and being a good listener. Not only does this move us through the upset but it teaches a child resiliency. How? By showing them what it looks like. By coming with love, confidence and calm when they are upset. Staying by their side and empathizing with the tumultuous feelings gives them the message that it is ok not to be ok, and tells them we know they can move through and regain sanity. On our end we show them we can make it past difficulties with ease, even when it’s not so easy. We model how we want them eventually to be as parents. If we can do these things it’s an insurance policy that our grandchildren will be heard and understood. Our kids WANT to do the right thing, but sometimes life’s upsets get in the way.
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