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This is not something I talk about much but maybe I should. Biphobia is something I’ve experienced pretty harshly and probably internalised myself. For a really long time I’d say “oh I just gave it a go” to some people when I didn’t want to go into it too much but the truth is I’d been “giving it a go” since I was 15 with my first girlfriend. We never came out, we just kissed on a trampoline at a party where all the boys tried to photograph us and share it among themselves. I realised quickly it was something that wasn’t taken seriously. But it went further than that. I’d fall in love with women in films, I’d be jealous of my friends in gay relationships, I’d have dreams, I’d feel like I was not entirely.. me. I never really came out. I’ve not told my parents because they feel that it would “be better to be one or the other”, gay or straight and that being bi is just “confusing” and “you’ll always want the other gender”. I was told no one would want to marry me or commit because I was a “risk”. I am 27 in a few weeks and I’m sick of skimming around my sexuality and feeling like I don’t belong. Maybe one day I will tell them. Sexuality takes time, especially in a world where bisexuality is seen as someone who is just confused. I’ve been in a relationship with men (and am in a happy relationship with a man right now) and also been in a relationship with a woman and enjoyed it. I’ve realised both were valid. I wasn’t confused, I wasn’t trying both. I was simply being me in both. I’ve come to realise that that IS okay. That as much as I’ve spent most Mardi Gras nights alone in bed crying because I felt I never would belong in the community, I do. And I’m valid. And so is bisexuality. End biphobia Illustration credit: @nomsikka #biphobia #bisexual #bisexuality #biwoman #bipride #endbiphobia #bisexualpride
Big bi birb and lil bi birb!
Also, I started playing Hollow Knight the other day and I'm loving it so far! I really want to crochet him and have a lil Hollow Knight of my own :3
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tomorrow’s pride here in london and while i’m SO excited (it’s all i’ve been talking about the whole damn week), i think it’s important to acknowledge a lot of us are still struggling with internalised biphobia.
see, i go through phases when it comes to love. sometimes i have a strong preference towards girls, sometimes towards guys. sometimes both equally but most of the time i don’t really know what i want, other than a cat.
and it’s normal. it’s a part of being bi. but sometimes it also makes me feel like i’m not “”gay enough””. not gay enough, not straight enough, not.... anything for that matter. it’s a constant imposter syndrome:
just constantly doubting yourself. were they right when they said it was just a phase? was i never gay enough because i’m not gay? was i never straight enough because i’m not straight?¿¿?
god, internalised biphobia is one hell of a drug. but we are here, we’re valid, we’re a part of the community and don’t have to constantly “prove our queerness”. and on that note, bring on pride
Any of you guys religious? -Eli
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