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TW: discussion of body image
I'm the fattest I've ever been so I thought I might as well be the nudest I've ever been too. The other day I realized that when I became disabled I was able to accept it pretty quickly. I’ve never liked being disabled, but it wasn't that hard for me to accept. I realized it was just part of who I am whether I liked it or not. I also realized that I've never accepted my fat in the same way. Even now that I'm disabled if you told me I could get rid of one of those two things, its possible I would choose to be skinny because somehow my brain believes that being thinner would make everything better. Now, to be clear, I'm glad I don't have the choice to magically change either of these circumstances. It's not easy being me, but it's probably not easy being you either and I think the way we learn to cope with those challenges is what makes us really beautiful. Beautiful on a soul level. I don't know how we all came to believe we need to be perfect to be loveable. Look around you at the people you love. Are they perfect? You'd be lying if you said yes. Or you'd mean that they are perfect to you! Perfect in your eyes. And you are that person too. You are that flawed and perfect beautiful dichotomy of flesh and bones and you are meant to be exactly the way you are. You are loveable, and I love you. Remember to love yourself too.
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Not seeing disabled people and bodies represented in mainstream media growing up had a big negative impact on how I viewed myself and was viewed by others, especially as a teenager.
High school was hell, and fellow students made it very clear that my otherness was a negative thing.
I got called re*ard, sp*azz, sp*stic, and cripple.
There is nothing I hate more in this world than being called a cripple by an able bodied person. I can reclaim that word, and regularly do. I.e. "Kiss my crippled ass" a phrase I use regularly, but it is totally inappropriate to say that to someone else.
Seeing positive representation of disabled people and disabled bodies is so important not just for disabled kids to see themselves represented, but also for non disabled kids and adults alike to not see disabilities as a bad thing, or a negative thing or something to be afraid of.
I would have people refuse to talk to me in high school because they thought I suddenly got sick and it might be contagious. Yes. I did really have classmates who wouldn't touch things I had touched incase my otherness, my disability could somehow transfer through contact.
Such interactions hardly make you feel good about yourself, especially when everything you see on tv excludes you unless it's some inspiration porn garbage.
Disabled people can be cute, sexy, desirable, handsome, no matter what society tells us.
We have a worth outside of fetishism and inspiration.
Disabled bodies are rad, and worthy and deserving.
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Dress is from Criminal Damage. .
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My pronouns are They/Them
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#rockabilly #spoonie #disabledandsexy #zoesstory .
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Devotees/Disability Fetishists will be blocked.
My body is not for your sexual gratification.
Gonna post this UNAPOLOGETIC picture of my body bc I think I’m a disabled babe and when I took this picture, I couldn’t help but think...DAMN, Jocy. Let’s celebrate diverse bodies✨✨✨✨✨✨✨
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Special thanks to @rvbyallegra @crooked_loves and @bodyposipanda for secretly inspiring me to take a picture of my body like this. I love it and I love me
[picture description: picture is of Jocy sitting on a stool. She’s wearing a light pink bomber jacket that shows her chest a little and her crooked fingers. She’s wearing black underwear. Her face is cut off in the picture to which you can only see her mouth. End.] #disabilityawareness #disabledandcute #disbabled #disability #disabledlatinx #disabledandsexy
Just because I use a wheelchair sometimes doesn't mean I can't be hot AF (Okay so this dress doesn't entirely work with the giraffe t-shirt (but maybe it does!) but it was one of the gems I scored at Glebe markets for $5! I feel like a total bombshell in it.) Inspired by #howtobeasexicon @erinunleashes ❤ #babewithamobilityaid
I know you’ve all been waiting for this post. It was bound to come. Therefore, here it is. I want to apologize in advance for it not being a regurgitation of my love life. However, I will start by saying I am a sexual being, and it’s crippling to think that society may think otherwise, that is if they even consider it at all.
To read more click the link in my profile, just press mode, a blog worth reading.
Photography: @elisalonerganphotography
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4 years ago today I had this bad boy taken off.
This is an ilizarov frame. It’s used to lengthen bones (I believe it can also be used to heal very badly broken bones) I had it on my left femur to correct a nearly 10cm length difference in my two legs due to a tilted pelvis.
The bone is surgically broken, and then over a period of a few weeks you turn screws to stretch the two bone ends apart. The body reacts to this by making new bone and voila your bone is longer!
In the second photo, there’s an x-ray showing about 5cm of a gap where the new bone will grow.
I think in the end I got nearly 8/9cm of new bone, which was absolutely incredible because that was done over about 7 months.
I have to admit, I looked pretty badass with that lump of metal hanging out of me for 7 months.
All the same, I was very happy to see it go. Facebook reminded me it’s been 4 years since it was taken off and I realised I need to make more of an effort in my recovery - I haven’t fully bent my left knee since it went on which is kinda sad. So I’ve decided it’s time to fix that.
But for now, enjoy the pictures of 2015’s hottest fashion/bodily accessory x
Picnic date with @fkntuk After 4 days of mostly lying down in the dark with a migraine, it was nice to get out and be near some trees. Forgot to take any photos together, photos of me in my chair or any other photos of trees but I was busy having a nice time. #Beard #BeardEnvy #Trans #Nonbinary #InMyNonbinaryFinery #Queer #GNC #Them #ThemFatale #ChronicallyFabulous #ChronicPain #CripplePunk #WheelchairLife #BabesWithMobilityAids #Cane #GPOY #SelfieLove #MOTD #DisabledAndCute #DisabledAndProud #DisabledAndSexy #HotPersonInAWheelchair #DisabledPeopleAreHot #Bi #Poly #Dates
“Focus on the powerful, euphoric, magical, synchronistic, beautiful parts of life and the universe will keep giving them to you.” - Unknown
Shifting my focus has made a big difference for me. My illnesses are still as difficult and limiting as usual. I’m still dealing with flares and new issues, but shifting my mindset has made it much easier to handle. See, I thought I had accepted and made peace with my illnesses much sooner. I thought I was accepting reality and my future by respecting my limits and recognizing the possibility that things may get worse. EDS is often degenerative in nature. Now I realize that recognizing my limits and potential future are much different than actually accepting and making peace with them. For the longest time, I was still living in a state of resistance to ‘what is.’ I was still aiming to get back to my old self and my life when I was healthier. I was clinging to the idea that my neurosurgery would be even more life changing and would reduce more issues. I was always trying to suppress and fight symptoms and my illness. I thought I had accepted the possibility of death and made peace with it, but of course there was still resistance. Something changed when I hit my lowest point after surgery. I was in a deep depression because I was so resistant and unhappy with where I was. I broke down and that’s when I truly surrendered. I accepted, at the moment, that this may be the best I ever get. I accepted that I may get worse. I accepted that I may die. And I accepted that I may live a long life and that my health can improve. I decided that regardless I will be strong, and handed it off to the universe. Everything became so much easier after that. I really started to be at peace with what is and focus on what I can do. That’s when I truly started making progress and began finding my own happiness. Again, I thought I was doing that the whole time, but there’s certainly layers to this stuff. There are layers to everything. The physical symptoms are easier to deal with when in a state of power, peace, acceptance. It’s easier to focus the mind on other things while still dealing with the symptoms. [Continued Below]
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