I couldn’t save this for #wisdomwednesday - "Girlfriend, you don't want her man, her empire or her life...what you really want is her harvest! Here's the funny thing about harvests, no one has a monopoly on them, they manifest for those who find fertile ground, plant the right seeds, water, fertilize, prune and protect against rodents/insects. When you are given [or take] a harvest that you didn't grow, chances are high that you don't have the skills necessary to maintain it. Sooner or later, time always
makes the appropriate adjustments." EB
I was recently asked how I cope with having a high-profile husband who attracts allot of attention from other women? My answer was this: "I never worry about other women...worrying is for the insecure. Everybody wants a mogul until the work and sacrifice kicks in. I'm not offended by another women "wanting" my man, he's the perfect catch. But let's be clear, I hold the only patent on this love story. I love him because of who he is, she just wants his money!" This is an extremely touchy subject for most women because the vast majority of us are unwilling to admit that we covet the lives, material possessions and relationships of others. It is a difficult thing to acknowledge. But when you realize that you really do have the power to create the life you want, you can shift your focus from coveting another woman's blessing to finding fertile ground of your own.
Always remember, when you grow a crop, you have an unfair advantage, you know the real deal, the good, the bad, the ugly. No one would have asked me this question back when my husband had a gold tooth in his mouth and wore his suits 2 sizes too big. Fortunately for me, I recognized fertile ground when there was nothing there but dirt. I sewed, watered, fertilized, sacrificed and protected. I have the life I earned. It is a waste of time to covet the blessings of others. The smarter play is learning how to recognize fertile ground and get busy growing your own harvest❣️ #EarleneBuggs #Harvest #EBsPinkNotes #repost
When a Woman Loves a Woman she celebrates, applauds, loves, respects, adores, cherishes, listens, speaks to and smiles at her. She may even share and repost her social media posts. ~*LOL*~ #CoffeeMillionaire #WCW #Smile #LotsOfLove #Live #Life #Look #Listen #Love #Learn #Laugh #Lifestyle #Legacy #LegacyBehavior #WhenAWomanLovesAWoman #AWomanWhoWins #WomenWhoWin #TheYearOfTheEntrepreneur #Repost @EarleneBuggs.
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When a man loves a woman...
1. He will tell her so
2. He will provide for her
3. He will do everything in his power to protect her
4. He allows himself to become emotionally vulnerable with her
5. He makes sense of her sometimes irrational behavior, she can do no wrong
6. If he is inspired by her, he will change for her...he doesn't view it as change but as compensation for the inspiration she provides
7. He will date her, make time for her, make her feel special
8. He will compliment her and make her feel like she is the most beautiful woman in the world.
When a woman loves a man...
...she will sacrifice all that she is, everything she owns and all of her hopes and dreams for her beloved!!! And they say woman are complicated⁉️ The truth is that men are complicated in love but simple in life and woman are complicated in life, but very simple in love...our entire existence depends on it!!! EB
#WhenAManLovesAWoman #WhenAWomanLovesAMan #LoveFacts #EarleneBuggs #HoltonBuggs #LoveBuggs #EBsPinkNotes
#Worth the READ... Back where I live its 5am. Where I am now its 4am. Traveling to another #timezone is essential when lessons like this are broken down in depth. #Lovethis right here... (Not from original post pic but still from original source...) #cantwait
"What is sexy...? I was recently asked this question by a young woman who is courageously growing into her womanhood. As you can imagine, I was caught off guard by her question because I have never been asked that before. I didn't have an answer off-the cuff which was surprising because I am seldom at a loss for words. So I did the next best thing...I asked my husband what he thought sexy was. And you know my beloved came thru in the clutch!
He gently explained to me that beauty is something you observe, but sexy is more emotional, it is something you feel. He went further to say that you don't have to be pretty or beautiful to be sexy because they are not one in the same. Sexy is more of an attitude or disposition. Unlike beauty, which is mostly physical, sexy is intangible.
After listening to his explanation, I finally came up with a definition of my own: sexy is a mannerism and is mostly about a person's level of confidence. It is exemplified in a smile, a walk, or style of dress. But the most important aspect of sexy is that the people who possess it, don't try so hard to display it. Sexy is not something you should have to slave for, it is who you are. I find it incredibly sexy when a person doesn't take themselves to seriously, doesn't particularly care about what other people think of them and can make me laugh. Where I'm from, we call that "SWAG." I guess now you know what I love about my beloved. Always remember, your style of dress may be the way you express your inner sexy, but it will never "make" you sexy...only your disposition, sense of humor and killer smile can do that! EB"
#Attention...This is MY #WCW... Like the late Luther V. would say... my, my, my... Shout out and major congrats to my #1 Female Mentor Mrs. Earlene Buggs for her major celebration, 10th anniversary of her #Fabulous Women Who Win Event. A lady who's down to earth, full with style and grace and knows how to keep it . Catching up on my #EBsPinkNotes today. Yes hunny... can't wait to celebrate you and love you back this weekend. Thank you for all you do. I, Shirley Xavier, salute and TRULY appreciate you. Chilllleeee #VIP ticket Ready!!! Quoted & Repost @earlenebuggs ... Gloria Steinem said that, "the truth will set you free, but first it will piss you off." If you were uncomfortable reading this post, that's all the more reason why you need to be at this year's Women Who Win Luncheon in Orlando, FL this Memorial Day. Ladies, it's high-time we get to the bottom of what is destroying our self-images, sabotaging our relationships, and killing our dreams. I #invite you to take this journey with me. I hope to see you there! Big hugs, EB
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