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With so many things fighting for our attention it’s hard to develop thoughts of yourself for yourself. Personal standards persuaded by the environment we live in. When you wake up, before you get stimulated by your surroundings; stare yourself in the mirror and set your very own personal standards for your life. Make sure they are your own not from what you’ve seen or heard but your own. Yea, sure it’s weird however weird people become uncommon. #upgradeu #ymoore #nathanieltmoore
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From @_spookywife_
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Next Saturday I am getting married. Holy Moly. 49 and getting married. 49 and beginning a whole new chapter, a whole new adventure, a whole new way of being in the world. Becoming a ‘we’. We have been together for 2 years, but before that I had been on my own for 10 years. That’s a long time to be on your own and then re-enter an intimate romantic relationship, especially when you have the history that I do.
I have been married twice before. Once for just 9 months when I was very young and the 2nd time to the father of my son. A man I loved and yet, in hingsight, didn’t really know how to be in relationship with. I have such deep attachment wounds, such deep abandonment wounds from my childhood and back then I had absolutely no awareness of how they were running my life and all of my relationships.
I tried so hard. I wanted to give and receive love so much. I wanted real closeness, companionship, deep friendship, support, care, compassion. And yet, on a deeply unconscious level, relationships where fraught with fear for me - I didn’t know how to deeply trust in another, although I didn’t know it at the time. I either tried to get way to close (enmesh!) or I was anti-dependent ‘don’t worry I have got this thanks’. I was regularly attracted to men (and friends) that were not really available for an emotional relationship and when one turned up that was I, sometimes consiously and often unconsciously, would run a mile. Closeness, truly being seen, vulnerability, letting you see my imperfections, was hard. Often just to hard.
For the first couple of years after my marriage ended I chose to focus on healing my very old and very deep wounds. Wounds I didn’t even know I had. I had never been alone before this. I needed to find a relationship with myself, with the support of an incredible therapist - our wounds are created in relationship and I believe can only be deeply healed in a theraputic relationship. I focused on building a business and life for myself and my son. And at some point I suspect that turned into avoidance of any real intimacy with men. I felt more in control being anti-dependent, not having to get to close.....(see comments for the rest)
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