List of the most popular hashtags for theme #HEARTQUOTES

Nice women rarely get what they want in life, especially in love and money. Society tells women to be "nice" while at the same time using that "nice" to cajole us into accepting less than we should in relationships, money and business.  Understand that when you reclaim your heart, your life and your mind everything changes. No more codependent love, this is about revolutionary self-love while eventually teaching our daughters to do the same. I am direct because most of us have been living an unconscious toxic life up until this point because we marinate in denial and failed to learn that ... . . It’s ok to set standards and have boundaries. . . It’s ok to be assertive and leave the Duchess of Doormats life alone . . It’s ok to admit that you have been the ride or die over-giver Because now its ok to wake up and grow. The goal is to move from the unconscious wounded child in toxic relationships to a conscious self-loving adult. I want the self-loving queen to rise. My goal is for you to see the parts of you that still need to heal. I want you to step out of the heart fog that keeps you submissive to men with ill-intentions for your heart and grow the naive wounded inner little girl up! I want you to put to bed the part of yourself that still wants to sacrifice your heart and mind to save someone who walked away while you were drowning. I want you to LIVE! Live to break the generational curses that lead to more trauma in our families creating more dysfunctional relationships for our sons and daughters. This isn't about being about sugar and spice and all that's nice.  The bakeshop is closed. I will not sugarcoat you. Of course, I can be the sugar. But I intentionally choose the spice. The spice keeps you conscious, accountable and your self-love lit. If you want well behaved posts that cater to the ego that sabotaged YOU in your relationships you’ve gotta look elsewhere. However, if you want to heal in a way that not only helps you reclaim your past, rewrite your love story and helps you become the best version of yourself, I’ve warmed a seat for you.

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“Healing from trauma is no easy feat. It takes time, effort and emotional energy. It requires us to get uncomfortable at times. In the process, we may start to question if we’re doing it right and how long it will take to “recover” fully. • Healing is a lifelong journey of self-discovery. There’s no perfect path towards healing yourself, towards grieving or learning how to love yourself deeply despite what you’ve been through. • Every individual’s healing process is unique and special. Ultimately, the true value of healing lies in learning to turn inwards, despite how painful it gets at times, and learning to love what you see. Posted @withrepost • @sitwithsharon . . ✔️Join my new Facebook group "Loving Me After We" to learn about this and more in the new Loving Me After We challenge - link in bio ✔️Turn on notifications, like, share and comment ✔️Work with me 1:1 - Check the link in my bio for more information on booking sessions . . . #empathsbelike #selfhealers #lettinggo #heartquotes #loveaddiction #codependency #codepenedent #complexptsd #traumasurvivor #toxicrelationships #narcissisticabuse #healthyboundaries #toxicpeople #feminineenergy #redtabletalk #highvaluewoman #trustyourgut #femininespirituality #femininewoman #innerguidance #dontsettle #datingcoach #relationshipexpert #healyourheart #relationshiprules #knowyourworth #selfforgiveness #lovingmeafterwe

There was a time when every disappointment in my romantic relationships would result in some sort of internal turmoil. If he didn't call, I was upset and worried that he no longer liked or wanted me.  I would ruminate about our previous conversations and wonder what I may have said to make him pull away. Peace of mind?  What was that? It wasn't until I started putting myself first and loving myself the most that things changed. Unapologetic boundaries and standards shifted everything. Doing the inner child work. Examining the relationship with both my father and my mother. The latter by far being the most painful and the former learning how to grieve him properly following his death. Filling my life with people and things that make me happy.  Cutting off toxic friends and not chasing friendships that weren't meant to move past a certain point. What I didn't realize was that some friendships caused more anxiety than they brought peace and I would find myself escaping my friends by jumping into the arms of the next toxic man. Saying that out loud feels crazy but life is so much more peaceful now with relationships platonic and romantic that are healthy and support me being whole and happy. This transformation meant MANY sacrifices because life as I knew it had to change. I had to cut off the F-boys.  Cut off the messy girlfriends.  Spend more than a few weeks SOLO because I needed to get back to myself.  Face the relationship with my mom....etc  Having a job where it's my duty to be there for everyone else, I forgot how to do that for myself. So, I found myself again. And it feels good not to need the validation of anyone else to live my life or feel good about myself. . . ✔️Join my new Facebook group "Loving Me After We" to learn about this and more in the new Loving Me After We challenge - link in bio ✔️Turn on notifications, like, share and comment ✔️Work with me 1:1 - Check the link in my bio for more information on booking sessions . .

Let's talk about how we project our fantasies of Mr Prince Charming on to the men in our lives. Growing up, some of us didn't have awesome childhoods. . .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ As a way to cope with this we create fantasies of what it would be like to have the perfect parent or partners. As adults we then super impose or project these fantasies onto the men we meet. . . .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ We find ways to make him perfect so that when he does hurt us, we hide from the truth often choosing the fantasy instead. It's easier this way. If he's really Prince Charming, surely he didn't mean to gas light us, right? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ . .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ So we forgive him for each wound. Never realizing that each wound has a message: boundaries, self-love, self-respect, standards and so on. What has each wound taught you? Or are you busy forgiving him hoping he will actually turn from his froggish ways into a prince? . . .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Your inner little girl keeps forgiving him naively hence why you've allowed him to continue hurting you leaving you with wounds you don't understand but keep collecting because you just keep forgiving. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ . .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Let's grow our hearts up and gather our love lives together in 2019 and make better decisions.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ . . ✔️Join my new Facebook group "Loving Me After We" to learn about this and more in the new Loving Me After We challenge - link in bio ✔️Turn on notifications, life, share and comment ✔️Work with me 1:1 - Check the link in my bio for more information on booking sessions . .

Are we clear on this ‍♀️ He has literally brought you nothing but drama and wrinkles yet you’re giving him the very best of you ‍♀️ . . He won’t respect you for sticking around at his lowest. He won’t honor you for accepting less than you’re worth. You’re literally teaching him that he can give you crumbs while keeping you starved for the whole loaf. . . His emotional and sexual slave. If that’s the life you want, you like it, I love it. But I know you don’t. Walk away and gather what little you have left of your self-respect. . . You will love yourself more for it because you’re not a rehab center and he is not your project. . . ✔️Join my new Facebook group "Loving Me After We" to learn about this and more in the new Loving Me After We challenge - link in bio ✔️Turn on notifications, like, share and comment ✔️Work with me 1:1 - Check the link in my bio for more information on booking sessions . . . #empathsbelike #selfhealers #lettinggo #heartquotes #loveaddiction #codependency #codepenedent #complexptsd #traumasurvivor #toxicrelationships #narcissisticabuse #healthyboundaries #toxicpeople #feminineenergy #redtabletalk #highvaluewoman #trustyourgut #femininespirituality #femininewoman #innerguidance #dontsettle #datingcoach #relationshipexpert #healyourheart #relationshiprules #knowyourworth #selfforgiveness #lovingmeafterwe

Patience !! Don’t call him. Let him come to you. In the mean time, chill out and get obsessed with proper self-care, self-soothing and self-talk. . . ✔️Join my new Facebook group "Loving Me After We" to learn about this and more in the new Loving Me After We challenge - link in bio ✔️Turn on notifications, like, share and comment ✔️Work with me 1:1 - Check the link in my bio for more information on booking sessions . . . #empathsbelike #selfhealers #lettinggo #heartquotes #loveaddiction #codependency #codepenedent #complexptsd #traumasurvivor #toxicrelationships #narcissisticabuse #healthyboundaries #toxicpeople #feminineenergy #redtabletalk #highvaluewoman #trustyourgut #femininespirituality #femininewoman #innerguidance #dontsettle #datingcoach #relationshipexpert #healyourheart #relationshiprules #knowyourworth #selfforgiveness #lovingmeafterwe

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Annnnnd if you have good self-esteem and a life that keeps you fulfilled and occupied, this won’t matter. . . Memes like this set women up to believe that men should keep in constant contact as if they’re children waiting for daddy to come home. Sure you want to talk to him but if you haven’t heard back then trust that he’s busy and will get back to you when he is ready. . . Not because he feels pressure to do so. Notice the more pressure you apply the more they pull away from you. If you do feel this way (mad that you haven’t heard from him)then attachment issues are at play. . . Specifically insecure attachment. Your goal is to become secure. Not to the extent that you don’t care if you don’t hear back but that you know that you’ll be fine and won’t fall apart or experience shifts in your mood if you don’t. Let’s heal and grow that scared little girl up. . . ✔️Join my new Facebook group "Loving Me After We" to learn about this and more in the new Loving Me After We challenge - link in bio ✔️Turn on notifications, life, share and comment ✔️Work with me 1:1 - Check the link in my bio for more information on booking sessions . . . #empathsbelike #selfhealers #lettinggo #heartquotes #loveaddiction #codependency #codepenedent #complexptsd #traumasurvivor #toxicrelationships #narcissisticabuse #healthyboundaries #toxicpeople #feminineenergy #redtabletalk #highvaluewoman #trustyourgut #femininespirituality #femininewoman #innerguidance #dontsettle #datingcoach #relationshipexpert #healyourheart #relationshiprules #knowyourworth #selfforgiveness #lovingmeafterwe