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Do you have the courage to love yourself and set the boundaries you need?
For years I didn’t, and wondered why my life didn’t work. I didn’t really understand what boundaries were or why I needed them.
My severe lack of boundaries allowed me to give away my energy, time, power, and love to others, leaving virtually nothing for myself.
For years I lived in a perpetual state of lack, feeling like I wasn’t enough. Looking back, it makes sense that I didn’t feel like I was enough; I was giving everything I had to everyone else.
Unsurprisingly, things eventually reached a breaking point, and at the age of 37 it all came crashing down on me.
Living without boundaries, overworking myself to the point of burnout, trying to please everyone, battling with money, and leaving a toxic relationship had left me almost broken. I finally surrendered and realised something had to give, before I did completely. My lack of boundaries was costing me too much. ( Credit - Victoria Leek bia Tiny Buddha)
It is ok to cut out relationships with people who drain you of all your energy.
Are your friendships fulfilling? Are you happy in your relationship? Do you love your job?
We have one life, it is important to be happy... tomorrow isn’t promised so love YOURSELF first and foremost! .
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♀️ Just Sayin...... .
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#Repost @thingshesaidtome @narcissistrecovery .
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Oh yes..... because the issue here is how I got the proof... not the fact you are actually doing the wrong thing... .
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♀️♀️♀️ So so many of us have been made out to be “crazy” because we have not tolerated an abusers bullshit! .
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#repost @narc_proof_and_thriving .
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Starting from scratch again.... still building!
It is so important to be aware of those who are there to genuinely care about you and those who are there & care about what you can give them, do for them, provide for them... .
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You are enough! Set boundaries & choose you! .
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Just keep going .
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You don’t destroy people you love..... let that sink in... .
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