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needed this one today ✨
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our attachment wounds and patterns do influence our relationships with friends, family, romantic partners, coworkers, bosses, etc. if you're interested in learning about your personal attchment style, there is a great quiz created by Dr. Diane Poole Heller, PhD which you can find by visiting the link in my bio or by watching my ig story. If you want more in depth support with healing your attachment wounds it is critical to work with a real human being that you can have a secure relationship with such as a therapist or coach. If this option is not practical for you at the moment, Diane also created a course on healing your attachment wounds which you can also find by clicking the link in my bio or in my stories.
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when our reality is denied and also unbearably painful as children, we learn to ignore/suppress it. we then carry this pattern of denying our current reality to avoid pain and shame on into adulthood.
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some people have messaged me and asked, “how come i have these mental/emotional/physical issues even though i had a good childhood or even though my childhood wasn’t as bad as other people’s?” trauma can occur when our parents are not attuned to our needs as children. why? because when we have a need that we cannot meet on our own as children, we rely on our parents to help us. and when our parents can’t or refuse to recognize or meet our needs then we are left in a powerless and hopeless position without the resources to cope. this is what trauma basically is; being left alone with a stressful situation without the resources to cope. and let me tell you, as someone who has worked with many children and parents, even the best parents are not attuned to their children 100% of the time.
the best thing you could do for yourself now is to commit to meeting your needs, including the needs that were not met when you were a child, and including the needs that you have learned to be ashamed of. and you don’t have to meet all of these needs on your own. we are an inter-dependent species, not an independent one. some needs, like our need for connection, need to be met by other people. involve your friends, family members, partners, therapists, pets, etc in this process of meeting your needs and the process of healing. .
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Love is meant to be celebrated. These stunning photos from @amit_aatma and @mad_adiyoo's wedding is #lovewithoutborders. Join us in congratulating the #newlyweds.
Photos Courtesy- @charmipena (Wedding), @paulosalud (Mehendi & Reception)
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become a person who learns to face their own difficult emotions without hiding or running away and seek support and companionship from those who are also committed to facing their own emotions without hiding or running.
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relationships (with parents, family, romantic partners, etc) where you were literally forced to or felt like you had no other choice but to rely on people who did not see, acknowlede or even care about your best interests can convince you that only these types of people and relationships exist. healing is about realizing and accepting that you don't have to beg and choose the wrong people anymore and you don't have to do everything on you own.
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"She killed her son, quartered, decapi tated, plucked the skin and tried to get rid of the body. It was a very terrible case", said a police officer.
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can you imagine doing this to anyone? let alone your own child...horrific.
I chose not to include the very graphic details of what they did to him. It's included in almost every news article tho. If you are lazy like me, just check my insta story for more details about the case.
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