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— before i even knew what trans was i felt a strong connection to this episode.—
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tags #genderdysphoria #translivesmatter #supporttranspeople #transgender #transboy #ftm #preT #wizardsofwaverlyplace #protecttranskids #transgirl #mtf #nb #hehim #theythem #sheher #transmed
TW: mentions of death/transphobia/dysphoria
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Swipe to listen to me reading the poem below.
Feel free to read with me.
Painful Reality
“Just love yourself,” they say
even though
every breath they take
is painless.
my perpetual reality consists of the following:
binding for 12 hours a day,
my ribs nearly break.
“don’t care what people think.”
brother, mother, father:
please try to comprehend,
this isn’t about them. (i wish it wasn’t)
it’s about me
and my
compatibility
with death.
i know
(trust me)
this isn’t what you’d want racing through your head but
a lot of us went missing trying to not care what people think
trying to just
love “the way god made them”
i’m sorry,
but,
move.
you’re in reality’s way.
disclaimer: DO NOT BIND FOR MORE THAN 8 HOURS A DAY.* Please share if you enjoyed! Thank you ❤️
yesterday i misgendered myself in a conversation and i did not know how to deal with it. did i have to correct myself or just ignore it and hope they didn't notice? i chose to just go over it, but i'm still not sure if that was the right way.
afterwards i kept beating myself up about it. how can i expect other people to use the right pronouns for me if i can't even manage to do that myself?
i'm pretty sure i'm not the only person this happens to and i just need to say that it's okay. gendered language is a habit that takes some time to break and relearn, and sometimes we slip up, even though we might think that we've grown accustomed to our new pronouns or name. it happens, and that's okay.
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just for the record, i'm going to drop they/them pronouns completely. it's not that i don't identify with them anymore, it's just that barely anyone uses them for me anyway and that there's no german counterpart for them, so they're not used in my daily life either. i've just grown so used to he/him pronouns and i feel super comfortable with them, so i decided to stick with those. i'm not going to be mad if anyone uses they/them, though. ✌️ #pronouns #nonbinary #thisiswhatnonbinarylookslike #nonbinarypride #genderqueer #trans #transmasculine #transmasc #transgender #transgenderpride #transequality #transandinked #transition #ftm #ftx #demiboy #transboy #pret #pretestosterone #gay #queer #lgbtq #lgbtqpride
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