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My biggest lesson in 2019 ✓ Drop an emoji in the comments if you agree ♀️⠀
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Hello from an ex-people pleaser. I used to turn my own schedule and life upside down in order to make others happy. A friend would call crying about a fight with her boyfriend and I would stop everything and run to comfort her. ⠀
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A client would email me and demand me to do something and I would do that even if that made me miserable or wasn't even agreed upon in our contract. ⠀
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With a LOT of disappointments and lessons, I've learned that not everyone needs access to me. Some people are just not your people. I can say no and the world doesn't stop spinning and I can put my needs and happiness first! ⠀
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Send me a DM if this is something you want to talk about because I know a lot of people are where I used to be, bending over backward in pleasing others. And this is counterintuitive but I'm just a message away and still very friendly and easy to talk to ⠀
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