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It’s important for victims of narcissistic abuse and complex PTSD to know and understand that the road to recovery and healing is not always easy, and you will experience some emotional pain on the journey, but those moments will pass, and a brighter, happier and healthier future is on the horizon.
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Don't bleach a red flag. That is our natural instinct. Bleach it, or deny its existence.
We do this in many areas of life. Friendships, business, and love. If we ignore it, our hope is that the color will fade until it no longer exists. And then we behave shocked when it doesn't happen the way we dreamed and hoped it would. Denial fades the color, but the red flag remains.
One of the greatest gifts of the Universe is the intuition and gut instinct we all have. Tune in to that and face those signals head on. You will save yourself so much heartache, headache, and stress if you do.
Teach your kids the importance of listening to their inner voice and gut instinct. Personally, I get butterflies when it is good and severe heebeegeebees when the darkness is right in front of me. That is the Empath in me, but we all have the gift. Use it! Listen to it! Honor it!
In the words of Maya Angelou... People show you who they are the first time you meet. Believe them.
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Sometimes divorce is necessary. Don't stay in a marriage if it is unhealthy or out of fear of being embarrassed of getting a divorce. No one else is living your life and you only have one life to live and you deserve to be happy....don't settle. It may hurt in the short-term but in the long run you will be better for it.
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If there is one piece of dating advice that really definitely works it's to get busy. There's a book called 'Why Men Love Bitches' - it's very outdated and I don't agree with most of it because it encourages you to pretend to be something you're not, but it does have some good principles. It tells you not to be freely available everytime they contact you - to wait a couple of hours before returning their call & it recommends pretending to be busy when they ask you out. And this stuff does all work, it's attractive to have a full and busy life and it gives an element of chase and challenge to the early dating stages. But it's not really effective if you're just pretending to be busy. Don't take 2 hrs to reply because you are playing games, take 2 hours to reply because you were at a Judo lesson. Don't pretend to be busy on Saturday - actually be busy, take yourself to an exhibition, meet friends, join a local Salsa class. Do something, anything, other than laying on your sofa scrolling through dating apps with Love Island on in the background every night of your life. If you don't have much going on then it means that as soon as someone exciting enters your life then your whole focus goes on them, they become your main source of entertainment and it becomes hard not to be freely available to them. This can lead to that person taking advantage of your time, like the meme says, if they know you've got nothing going on except for them then if they are a prick they will feel no way about wasting your time. Your time is not valuable to them because you're not doing anything anyway. Being genuinely busy means that you make better choices about who you are willing to give your precious time to, being idle leaves you more likely to settle because you just want company. I know it's hard when you are restricted by kids, money etc, but there is plenty to do even without leaving the house. Learn a language online, get deep into some audiobooks, read, make something. Get busy with something you enjoy so that trying not to be single doesn't become your biggest hobby. There's more to life than dating. Have a satan free Saturday
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