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BOUNDARIES:
I want to talk about boundaries because it’s important to your success in our line of work.
I grew up with none. I grew up giving myself and my power away. When I did try to vocalize my right to space, my right to exist, I was just shut down. This pattern of not being allowed to convene with my own self and convey my own boundaries spread our to how I react to the outside world, and more pertinently, to how I behaved with and exchanged services customers in clubs. -
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for example:
I said yes to customers on things that I wasn’t comfortable doing.
I’d spent too much time with clients.
I’d give out my phone number simply because they asked. ✨You know how this affected my life and manifested into?
Not being paid accordingly.
Entity invasions in my energetic field and body, weak digestion.
constant tiredness,
feeling drained,
being used by other dancers for rides, money, place to stay
inability to retain and save money I made,
Feeling physically sick from being bombarded and clusterfucked with other people’s thoughts and emotions.
A non willingness and disbelief I could succeed and build a future for myself. -
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In order to be successful in sex work where we are dealing with a deceived backed up and therefore powerful patriarchy, we have to have strong boundaries. We hAve to break these old brainwashed patterns of weak boundaries. This can be done with therapy, eft tapping, and energetic healings. I help other queens, like yourself, break these old patterns with the latter-energetic healing sessions. With Spirit work, I help them see their power and take ownership of your space so they can feel physically and mentally healthier and make the money deserve and have access to. If any of this resonates with you, and you’d like to do a session, I’m excited and honored and ready. #muchlove
LOL WENT FROM HOT TO NOT IN 2 slides HOW TO STOP BEING A LAZY BITCH. Stop making excuses, literally check yourself as you’re doing it. And make goals that are achievable and not overwhelming, and set a start and end date :) achieving goals builds your confidence and builds a better habit of writing and speaking all your desires to Le universe
Class is about how you treat yourself and how you expect to be treated. Believe it or not, I and fellow strippa sisters have been regarded as classy by many people who don’t know what we do for work. Our work does not define whether we are a classy woman or not. (& FYI, working in a club does NOT mean you are being treated bad or letting people do whatever they want to you. If you believe this then you obviously aren’t a dancer or don’t realize that in any situation, you are in control of what you accept in your life)
I have this funny thing called the “goodbye tip” that I’ll ask for sometimes depending on the energy and the customer. It’s definitely worked out multiple times tho. When a customer is really into you but now they have to leave the club for the night I ask for a goodbye tip and almost every time I’ve gotten one, sometimes up to $20 just to say goodbye lol (although any amount is always appreciated). The point being, ask and you shall receive —> and if you don’t ask, the answer is always no.
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