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( or VICE VERSA)That's the biggest red flag, having to tell someone how to treat or love you. NEVER AGAIN. You will never be loved or treated correctly by a narcissist, they simply aren't capable of giving or receiving love. In the very beginning of the relationship they'll mirror you and love bomb. You'll think you've found your soulmate! It's all very deliberate to get you to fall hard for them so they can start getting supply. Soon as you start to question their behavior because something feels off and their words and actions aren't aligning the gaslighting starts and it will be all your fault that things aren't as good as they were in the beginning and now the vicious cycle of you trying to prove your worth has begun in hopes of getting the relationship back like it was. IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN! Save yourself and go NO CONTACT! Save yourself! For a daily dose of spiritual inspiration my spiritual page @spiritually_centered_1111 #saveyourself #healingcoach #mask #fake #facade #users #youaresupply #cheating #lying #manipulation #sociopath #narcopath #nocontact #healing #narc #narcissism #fuckboys #sexaddicts #pornaddicts #narcissist #emotionalabuse #mindfuck #fakelove #liar #npd #emotionalvampires #abusiverelationship
Et après des mois de réflexion, de remise en question et de baston pour combattre ce qui est devenu mes nouveaux réflexes de survie, me dire que la confiance c’est encore possible, et qu’IL n’est pas LUI, baisser sa garde est un exercice TRÈS TRÈS difficile pour moi. Et difficile à comprendre pour la personne en face. Et oui, lui, il arrive avec ses bonnes intentions et son cœur sur un plateau, et au lieu de dire merci moi je sors ma loupe, mes lunettes à vision de nuit et mon attirail de médecin légiste.
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Non ce n’est pas de sa faute, et il ne devrait pas payer l’addition de la table d’à côté, mais la dernière fois qu’on m’a dit “Je t’aime” on a voulu m’anéantir ensuite.
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Alors au futur mec qui partagera ma vie, je suis désolée si un délinquant avant toi a transformé les 3 plus jolis mots de la Terre en traumatisme. Je suis désolée si tu dois te battre pour franchir des obstacles laissés par quelqu’un d’autre. Mais si tu as la foi d’insister un peu, promis on sera bien. Je sais réparer un lave-linge et faire des crêpes.
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so after months of thinking, of getting better and fighting against what have become my new survival reflexes, telling myself that trust is still possible and that HE is not HIM, lowering my guard is still a very tough thing for me to do. And tough thing to understand for the person in front of me. He comes along with all the best intentions and his heart on a plate and instead of thanking him I pull out my magnifying glass, my night-vision goggles and my forensic gear.
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No it’s not his fault, he shouldn’t be paying the previous table’s check, but the last time I heard « I love you » it was followed by the worst attempt of psychological destruction.
So, to the future nice guy with whom I’ll share my life : I am sorry. I am sorry that a felon before you turned the 3 most beautiful words in the world into a trauma. *
I am sorry that you have to fight the obstacles that someone else’s has left before you. But if you have a little faith in me and try for a while, I swear we can be good together. I can fix a washing machine and cook crepes.
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@nottodaynarc #repost! Love this one ☝ #truth when you see the #bs your labeled crazy remember some of your actions are reactions to their abuse. No one should be treated poorly, without respect ✊ remember your worth #thefeels #narcissisticabuse #relationshipquotes #sociopath #narcissist #narc@#nope #selflove #selfworth #selflove #selfcare #quotes #quotestoliveby #narcissisticabuse #byebye #nottodaysatan #nottoday #moveon
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This! ❤ I'm thankful I can FEEL ! Thankful I don't have to go through life an empty/ soulless shell that will NEVER experience the intoxicating feeling of true love, meaningful connections and all the beauty this life has to offer There is so much to be thankful for! For a daily dose of spiritual inspiration my spiritual page @spiritually_centered_1111 #gratitude #thankyouuniverse #selfaware #loveistheanswer #healingcoach #mask #fake #facade #users #youaresupply #cheating #lying #manipulation #sociopath #narcopath #nocontact #healing #narc #narcissism #fuckboys #sexaddicts #pornaddicts #narcissist #emotionalabuse #mindfuck #fakelove #liar #npd #emotionalvampires #abusiverelationship
LOVE THIS! IDGAF I let go of what no longer serves me and turned all the " giving a fk " towards myself. Wasted too much energy and emotions and time on on unworthy people. D.O.N.E Self love is the best love! For a daily dose of spiritual inspiration my spiritual page @spiritually_centered_1111 #saveyourself #healingcoach #mask #fake #facade #users #youaresupply #cheating #lying #manipulation #sociopath #narcopath #nocontact #healing #narc #narcissism #fuckboys #sexaddicts #pornaddicts #narcissist #emotionalabuse #mindfuck #fakelove #liar #npd #emotionalvampires #abusiverelationship