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This is not a comic, this is a reckoning. . . Autistic women, girls and non-binary people deserve to grow and develop without the burden of abuse. . . Autistic women, girls and non-binary people need concrete resources and information to keep themselves safe in relationships. . . Cultural awareness has shifted to the degree that we know that someone doesn’t need to hit, to hurt. It can be difficult while you’re in an abusive relationship to navigate your own feelings and intuition, and to realize how bad the situation is. It may feel inescapable. You may question yourself. The abuser relies on this self-doubt. . . Community protection often doesn’t extend to us. Autistics are especially susceptible to the ‘missing stair effect’ (google if you don’t know this one, it’s important). Communities may know that someone is abusive, and we may lack the connection within that community to benefit from that knowledge. . . I don’t need to spout statistics, we are living them. . . The following are suggestions I’ve gathered from autistic community members based on our lived experiences. . . I encourage you to add your own ’s and resources for survivors that you know of. Let’s change the narrative for the next generation of autistics to one where abuse is not a common thread. . . #autism #autistic #actuallyautistic #asd #neurodiversity #neurodivergent #aspergers #aspie #autismmom #autismawareness #autismacceptance #autistic #womensrights #lgbtq #nonbinary #trauma #mentalhealth #recovery #abuse

Works like a charm. . . . . . . . . #adhd #adhdproblems #adhdmemes #adhdwomen #adhdbrain #memes #actuallyautistic #aspiegirl #aspergers #autisticmemes #autisticadult #aspien #adhdlife #adhdisreal #adhdprobs

I was born autistic. I’ve been autistic my entire life. And, I will die autistic. But I didn’t know I was autistic until I was diagnosed at the age of 29. #actuallyautistic #latediagnosis https://neurodivergentrebel.com/2019/07/24/autism-tales-stories-the-ugly-duckling/

Autistic people with well-developed masks may do better in certain situations compared to autistics without masking skills. Still, masking may come with a heavy cost, leading to physical exhaustion, anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, and burnout. #actuallyautistic #TakeTheMaskOff https://neurodivergentrebel.com/2018/07/23/time-to-take-the-mask-off-takethemaskoff/

~ I have returned from the medieval week on Gotland. My body is slowly finding balance after stumbling through a dark mist of mental challenges. I am filled with grief, because I have come to realise what my reality has formed itself into. ~ ~ This was my last year at the medieval week for a very long time, if not forever. The outcomes of such a week are unbearable for my mind and body. No matter how few activities I went to, the consequences would always break me down, piece by piece. I could not stay at the market for more than a few minutes each day. Not without paying a cruel price. ~ ~ I've had two wonderful years at the medieval week, and I really enjoyed the archery competition on Tuesday together with @ellenssagor and @peters_longbow. But I will never get those magical moments back. This was farewell to the ancient walls of Visby. ~ ~ ~

it's called a spectrum for a reason!!!!!!!!!! not because you are more or less autistic, but because traits can range from all over - katie - credit to @/autistic-reptile on tumblr

A little over a week ago, I got back from a study abroad trip in Ireland. While I was there, many pictures were taken of me in various locations. The point of this post is to show you the unvaried "pose" I tended to do, which was usually just to stand or sit there and look at the camera. The last picture is the only picture I actually "posed" for, by crossing my arms and leaning against the wall of an ancient castle. I suspect it's probably an autism thing, that I seldom posed for the camera. I'm not sure why: maybe I was unaware of how I looked from the outside, or maybe I just didn't care? I think my goal when the pictures were taken was simply to get a photograph of me in a given environment- the environment was what mattered the most to me, so I felt no need to pose, because that would draw attention towards me and away from the environment. That sounds silly in retrospect because they're photos "of me", as in, the point is that /I'm/ in the environment and therefore I /should/ draw attention to myself, but it never feels natural to do that. Maybe this goes back to the ego dissolution thing I posted about a few days ago. I feel like part of the environment, so it's strange to make myself distinct from it by posing. Of course I'm still visible when I don't pose, and I'm obviously a human, not a tree or something. But posing is like using the environment as a prop, which feels wrong somehow. I know logically that there's nothing wrong with posing, but it feels unnatural, because I never pose in my everyday existence and I don't live my life like it's a performance. I also don't live as if I'm distinct or more important than the environment, so it feels best to make myself as plain as possible in photographs. Those are my random thoughts for today . ~Eden #autism #autistic #autismspectrum #autismacceptance #autismawareness #actuallyautistic #redinstead #neurodiversity #neuroqueer #aspergers #aspie #autisticselfadvocacy #autisticpride #autismpride #sensoryprocessing #sensoryprocessingdisorder #sensorysensitivity #stimming #justkeepstimming #stimfreely #adhd #sensoryoverload #specialinterest #actuallyautisticmemes #development #developmentaldisabilities

Shoutout to you, wherever you fit in the most who you are is good enough . . . #aspie #aspiegirl #aspergers #autism #autistic #actuallyautistic #autisme #autisticadults #autistickids #aspergerssyndrome #aspergerslife #aspielife #neurodiversity #neurodiverse #neurodivergent

A fascinating study, which contains many parallels to the narrative essay I just posted. I feel the need to point out, however, that autistic people's lack of bias/ value distinction between self and others is framed as a defect by the author(s) of this article, who write, "Individuals with autism are also impaired in thinking about themselves." But the research doesn't say that we're impaired when thinking about ourselves, it just says that we think about ourselves the same way we think about other people. And how is that an impairment, exactly? Why is it framed as a bad thing? I contend that our lack of egocentrism probably makes autistic people more open-minded, fair, and accepting of diversity. I also have many issues with the wider narrative that autistic people are selfish and uncaring, because we're literally the opposite. Every single piece of research I know of that's been done to measure our altruism and selflessness, has shown us to be, on average, more altruistic and selfless than neurotypicals. Of course the authors always find ways to make those qualities some form of "impairment", but we should look at the studies themselves and draw our own conclusions from the results. Autistic people, we are not broken or defective. Our brains simply work in an incredibly egalitarian way, which our selfish, competitive, egotistical, capitalist society finds threatening. ~Eden Addendum: I'm pleased that many of you are pointing out the glaring flaw in this study- no females were included. This is typical of autism research as a whole, especially 10 years ago when this study was done. So take the results with a grain of salt, because while they are probably applicable to females to at least some degree, we don't know for certain. #autism #autistic #autismspectrum #autismacceptance #autismawareness #actuallyautistic #redinstead #neurodiversity #neuroqueer #aspergers #aspie #autisticselfadvocacy #autisticpride #autismpride #sensoryprocessing #sensoryprocessingdisorder #sensorysensitivity #stimming #justkeepstimming #stimfreely #adhd #sensoryoverload #specialinterest #actuallyautisticmemes #development #developmentaldisabilities #psychology #ego #egoboundaries