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My best friend just asked me a few days ago, “Are you emotionally available right now? Needing to vent a bit.”
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I legit rejoiced internally, to be asked this question... This. is. progress.
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And in that that moment, I actually was NOT available. I had just gotten home from work and needed to decompress a bit. I said, not at the moment. Can I message you in two hours? (Replace with 2 days, 2 weeks, or NEVER- whatever time you need)... She was like fuck yes that’s perfect. Because who wants to express themselves to someone who isn’t available for them anyway? I know I wouldn’t.
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Just because we’re in the same room as someone doesn’t mean they’re available. Just because we love someone with our whole heart and they love us, doesn’t mean we’re available. Just because we are an amazing listener doesn’t mean we’re available. And when we are honest and say, “I’m not available”, it gives that person permission to do the same- whether it’s to their own partner, mother, etc...
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If you are an especially attuned listener (which is rare), I am sure you are used to people unsolicitedly sharing their “stuff” with you (aka dumping on you, leaving you feeling like a receptacle for other people’s shit). It’s so rare for people to feel heard and your presence is such an anomaly that their floodgates open. So this consent thing is a game changer especially for the attuned empaths of the planet. I’ve set boundaries with people when they start to dump and I’m not available by saying something like, “I’m actually not emotionally available for this right now and that doesn’t seem fair to you”. #gamechanger
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Brian and I have been asking each other this question “are you (emotionally) available?” for YEARS. (We thought it was a normal thing that all ppl do. But then we’d go to the market where we’d see a lot of ppl from our local community and quickly remember that it’s NOT a thing ppl do #help #deathinproduceaisle #emotionalabor!!) Yes, sometimes we forget because we aren’t perfect, but for the most part we ask, and if the other isn’t, we never personalize it. We literally bow in respect and reverence to the other... and we actually came up with a hand signal to let the other know⬇
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Love message for Wednesday 24th April, 2019.
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Someone whom you know hasn’t been forthcoming about the true nature of their feelings for you, but they are developing from friendship into the early stages of love. I do see subtle ‘hints’ having been dropped in the form of flirting, tagging you in certain posts, gift giving, being extra ‘helpful’ and attentive to be closer to you, etc. So if you feel like you have picked up on something (energetically) when you are around them, or this occurs, trust your hunches. Intuition doesn’t lie.
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I’m channeling the song ‘if you had my love’ by Jennifer Lopez. As I always state, if you don’t know it check the lyrics, because my guides are telling me that this is what many of you are thinking and feeling, where matters of the heart are concerned. ✨
It is safe for you to let your guard down and to go ahead and tell somebody how you feel about them. It will be well received and chances are there is reciprocation. Don’t assume/fear the worst. Have faith. ✨
I’m getting a vision of someone scanning a room to see if you are there, as well as the message ‘looking for you.’ This could be literal in the sense where you tend to see each other often, whether it be through work, study, etc. On the other hand, spirit is saying that it could be via social media. Whatever the case may be, this is a person that definitely likes your presence/having you around.
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